Former Super Eagles captain and midfielder, Mikel John Obi, has slammed his family members for an entitlement mentality when they have done little or nothing to deserve special treatment. He made the revelation during an interview with fellow footballer, Rio Ferdinand.
He indicated that when someone achieves financial success, there’s always a tendency for other family members to relent in their daily efforts, dumping their financial responsibilities on the successful family member.
According to Obi, when an African person acquires money, many relatives and cousins begin to make demands, and sisters even married ones believe they are destined to be a part of the family.
The football player mentioned that these people have so many children and expect him to care for them, which sometimes compels him to be strong and put his own needs aside to carter for them.
Mikel Obi stated that the extended family members believe he owes them money and threaten to go to the press if he refuses help them.
Read what he said below:
He said: “When you come from Africa when you make money, it’s not your money. You have all these relatives, cousins, and your sisters go off and get married to some guy who just wants to get married into Mikel John Obi’s family because his life is sorted, and then you start looking after this guy, and before you know it, they keep having so many kids and you look at it like,
“Okay, you’re having this many kids, who are going to look after them?’ It’s you! It’s the culture because, for them, you owe them that, so sometimes you have to be strong and say, ‘You know what, guys, enough is enough; I don’t care’. They give you this thing whereby ‘if you don’t do it, we’re going to go to the press’. After all, what have I done for you guys? But this happens a lot in Africa. Not everybody comes out and speaks about it.” He added.
